Friday, May 27, 2011

Present and Accounted For

In my last post, I mentioned that my son, James, has never missed a day of school. Not one single day.

His goal of perfect attendance was established in sixth grade. He had just been recognized for 6 years of perfect attendance (not counting kindergarten) and decided that he was half-way there. Why not go all the way? An article about a local girl winning a car for outstanding attendance may have influenced his decision somewhat, but that doesn't matter. The boy had a goal.

For thirteen years, he has been in class or at school-sponsored events every school day. Never absent, never tardy, and never leaving early for a doctor visit. And for thirteen years we have monitored his attendance records, understanding that sometimes people make mistakes. There were lots of mistakes once he reached junior high - not surprising, considering each teacher was keeping track of 3, 4 or 5 times as many students. At least once a year we contacted the school to report errors. The errors were always corrected... or so we thought.

Last week, we attended the senior awards presentation. James received several awards , but we were surprised that there was no mention of his attendance achievement. I may be a little biased here, but I think that lifetime perfect attendance is something that deserves recognition. Otherwise, why would anyone ever bother attending more than the minimum number of days required?

James followed up with the school this week, and learned that his record showed an absence in 8th grade, and that he would have to contact the junior high to correct it. I remembered reporting that absence to the school on the last week of classes and receiving assurances (as usual) that it would be corrected. Only this time, it wasn't. I guess I should have checked... verified that it was corrected... followed up every time to make sure that people were actually doing their jobs. Silly me - expecting people to keep their promises... to do their jobs.

Today I made phone calls, speaking with people who claimed to be unable to correct records that had already been submitted. (If that is true, we have a seriously flawed system.) I worked my way up to the district superintendent's office, where I finally spoke with someone who actually seemed to care. She took my information and promised to help resolve the problem.

It's amazing how quickly things happen when you get the right people involved. Within an hour, I received a call from the high school principal. She had talked to the junior high principal who agreed that the record was incorrect and James really did have perfect attendance. She apologized for the confusion and told me that they were ordering a plaque for James. It wouldn't be ready until after graduation, but at least his efforts would be recognized.

I'm sad that he wasn't able to share his achievement with his friends on awards night. So I'm sharing it here... with you.

Way to go, James!

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That is a very remarkable achievement ! Way to go, outstanding. I wonder what percentage of students have a perfect record, not very many. I've heard of one student in Wharton schools that had a perfect record. I live near Wharton and Boling Independent School Districts and this one person over many years had a perfect attendance. Yes, this an outstanding achievement.
1 reply · active 724 weeks ago
I wonder about that myself. I can only remember reading about one student over the last ten year. Perhaps there are more, but we just don't hear about them?
Way to go. I'm here to tell you, as a former worker for the Post Office, that it's WHO you talk to that matters. Folks who care care a lot. It's a crapshoot whether or not you get those folks.

Your son is remarkable. Also, healthy!
1 reply · active 724 weeks ago
Thanks, Murr! You're so right about talking to the right person. I knew, immediately, when I had reached the right person, by her level of enthusiasm.�
Wow. I am glad that your son got his recognition. I do however greatly dislike the word perfection in whatever context used. Paula xxx
1 reply · active 724 weeks ago
Hi Paula! I definitely understand your dislike of the word "perfect". The important thing about this experience is not the "perfection" of his attendance record, rather the fact that he set a goal and�he reached that goal... and that's something we can all strive for. :)

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